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By: Laura

Laura — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:42:16 +0000

I agree with Taylor wholeheartedly. All of the needless amenities like cable/internet, netflix, eating out, an extra large rent payment, etc. need to go. Not saying you have or do all of these things. I know you wanted a pep talk on keeping faith but true friends will tell you the truth. I understand if you are locked into a long term rental agreement but if you can get out of it and downsize, you would be able to breathe better. It’s hard to rob Peter to pay Paul in that situation because they always hold the “eviction” card over your head if you don’t pay.

I already have a list of extra’s that I pay for now that I know I would have to cancel if I were to ever lose my job. Think about what you need: a roof over your head, food on the table and gas for the car, everything else is a “want”, not a necessity.

On the keeping the faith front, you believe and have faith that you will have the next minute, or the next hour, or the next day, so put that same faith into the “issues” that are surrounding you. You have to be still and wait on the Lord though, things don’t come in your timing, they come in His timing. And remember that we always thank God in good times when we are being blessed, we also have to thank God and praise Him in the bad times as well. Actually the saying is “Ask and you shall receive”, and that is from the bible, the ultimate authority, it trumps “The Secret” and all the other New Age philosophy.

By: Ronda

Ronda — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 20:00:32 +0000

Every night I go to bed knowing I won’t sleep. Because I know I will think about is what going “strike” in the morning. It SUCKS…but I have two kids too that depend on me to be there to make sure THEY KNOW things will ok in the end. That is your JOB right now. No matter what it takes. And as bad it seems – God will NOT give what you can’t handle. Swallow what is left of your pride ( I know I have none left) and do what it takes to get you through. Hey – we recycled cans to buy class valentines for my little one. Stop thinking – just get through the moment….

By: Taylor

Taylor — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 06:13:41 +0000

Could you possibly do something on the side to supplement your unemployment? Maybe childcare, pet sit?, etc. Possibly downsize to an apartment where your utilities would be cheaper. Your kids seem to be in your room most of the time and you don’t need/use the dining room (I know except for dancing – but you can do that in any room). They are also not there 100% of the time. I know it isn’t easy but sometimes you have to take a step back to move forward (until your situation gets better). Change happens whether we like it or not. Your kids are still young enough that they can handle a different living situation. I had 3 step-kids stay with us every other weekend in a one bedroom/one bath and they camped out in the livingroom and never complained once about it. It sure made us spend time together. I’m not saying you need to go that small but maybe a 2 bedroom apt. wouldn’t be a bad idea for now. Everybody keeps telling you to hang in there but that only goes so far – you have to do what’s best for yourself and your family. You’re well known in town and have connections that other people don’t have. Use it.

By: Lisa K

Lisa K — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:40:21 +0000

Hang in there Laura!!!

My hubby is an out of work radio producer right now too so I feel your pain.

Hopefully radio will make a comeback after corporate America stepped in to screw it all up…

*HUGS*

Lisa

By: jason

jason — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 15:02:20 +0000

One day at a time young lady. God knows what you need.

Besides, I am a little panicky too right now, because I was wearing that same unicorn costume just yesterday.

By: squirt

squirt — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 00:31:48 +0000

Why is it that you delete the comments that don’t glorify the screw-ups of the Showgram?

By: susie

susie — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 16:13:34 +0000

Laura: my husband has been unemployed now for 15 months. i totally get that panic feeling that sets in when things are due (or overdue). Tommy is so right – just breathe, keep on breathing, maybe say a little prayer on the exhale then go on living life. things WILL get better. i’m with Debbie in that i just don’t write fan letters but i felt compelled to write this because your comments struck such a cord with me – knowing that others get what we are going through and maybe praying a little for us helps to keep me going. so i will add you to my list and hope you will add me to yours. Never give up, never surrender!!!!

By: Debbie Lux

Debbie Lux — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 02:33:34 +0000

Laura, You know we still love you and the guys. I pray that you will be back on the air soon. I have never in my life written any kind of fan mail before, but my life and thousands of others, aren’t the same without our morning laughs that you all provided for us. Also, I am so sorry to hear about your money worries. You are such a talented and gifted person. Remember, it’s always darkest before the dawn. Much love to you!

By: Sue Turner

Sue Turner — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 01:52:47 +0000

Laura, I can’t imagine being in your position, and I’m so sorry you’re going through this! Of course everyone says tough things make you stronger, but it’s not easy to see the positive when you’re in the middle of it. I pray something will happen on the job front and you’ll be able to not only pay your bills, but get yourself out of debt. Keep your chin up!

By the way, I admire your honesty; I’m sure this isn’t easy!

By: Lori

Lori — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 01:41:27 +0000

Screw Scott’s reply. Hang in there Laura. I do the rob peter to pay paul every month. It is not fun, that’s for sure…but somehow…it works out in the end. I think San Diego would start riots downtown if we were told the showgram will never be again. Everyone loves you guys and there WILL be a way to get you back. Be tough…don’t be afraid to ask for help, and people will get their money when they get it!