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		<title>By: Jamie (Listener #5)</title>
		<link>http://jeffandjer.com/blog/laura/2010/01/18/the-last-diary-about-him/comment-page-1/#comment-72</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie (Listener #5)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 20:45:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok Laura, you are going to find Mr. Right he was just someone to hang with and not good enough for our Laura......

Love ya and can&#039;t wait to have you back on air.......</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok Laura, you are going to find Mr. Right he was just someone to hang with and not good enough for our Laura&#8230;&#8230;</p>
<p>Love ya and can&#8217;t wait to have you back on air&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Nancy</title>
		<link>http://jeffandjer.com/blog/laura/2010/01/18/the-last-diary-about-him/comment-page-1/#comment-44</link>
		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 05:08:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh dear sweet Laura - I try to have faith that everything happens for a reason and that one who is greater than I has a better plan for me. When I trust in that it eases those painful parts of &quot;life on life&#039;s terms&quot;. So many of us love you and are in your corner. Hang in there and keep working for the &quot;Promises&quot; to happen. There is one who will love you to pieces.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh dear sweet Laura &#8211; I try to have faith that everything happens for a reason and that one who is greater than I has a better plan for me. When I trust in that it eases those painful parts of &#8220;life on life&#8217;s terms&#8221;. So many of us love you and are in your corner. Hang in there and keep working for the &#8220;Promises&#8221; to happen. There is one who will love you to pieces.</p>
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		<title>By: Name Last Initial</title>
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		<dc:creator>Name Last Initial</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:36:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hang in there Laura K. This one might hurt especially hard without your &quot;former best friend&quot; around to numb the pain. Remember it&#039;s better to GROW through experiences merely than to just go through them. You&#039;ll come out of this much stronger. Keep the chin up. Your heart will heal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hang in there Laura K. This one might hurt especially hard without your &#8220;former best friend&#8221; around to numb the pain. Remember it&#8217;s better to GROW through experiences merely than to just go through them. You&#8217;ll come out of this much stronger. Keep the chin up. Your heart will heal.</p>
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		<title>By: jason</title>
		<link>http://jeffandjer.com/blog/laura/2010/01/18/the-last-diary-about-him/comment-page-1/#comment-42</link>
		<dc:creator>jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 14:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So you&#039;re telling me there&#039;s a chance!

**SWEET!**</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So you&#8217;re telling me there&#8217;s a chance!</p>
<p>**SWEET!**</p>
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		<title>By: Kanga</title>
		<link>http://jeffandjer.com/blog/laura/2010/01/18/the-last-diary-about-him/comment-page-1/#comment-41</link>
		<dc:creator>Kanga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 05:17:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laura - if your A-game wasn&#039;t enough for him....it&#039;s not about you. And I believe you deserve someone who thinks your A-game is amazing. Keep your chin up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laura &#8211; if your A-game wasn&#8217;t enough for him&#8230;.it&#8217;s not about you. And I believe you deserve someone who thinks your A-game is amazing. Keep your chin up.</p>
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		<title>By: Taylor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Taylor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 02:55:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m sorry Karen K. doesn&#039;t agree with me but when a person is in their 40&#039;s with two young children and is hoping it works out with a guy who has no intention or interest what-so-ever I can&#039;t see the point.  He waits 3 years to spill his guts.  When you know it you know it and time is precious.  It doesn&#039;t work out when one person wants more than the other.  It&#039;s pretty hard to be &quot;just friends&quot;.  Unless two people feel the same way it will never work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry Karen K. doesn&#8217;t agree with me but when a person is in their 40&#8217;s with two young children and is hoping it works out with a guy who has no intention or interest what-so-ever I can&#8217;t see the point.  He waits 3 years to spill his guts.  When you know it you know it and time is precious.  It doesn&#8217;t work out when one person wants more than the other.  It&#8217;s pretty hard to be &#8220;just friends&#8221;.  Unless two people feel the same way it will never work.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Kinney</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Kinney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 14:13:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laura, I have listened to you for many years, talked w/u when you were on the air many times, felt with you, cried with you, and we don&#039;t even know each other, but like so many others, because of your openness, I feel I do. In that vein, my heart breaks for you  ....

I disagree with Taylor though, it&#039;s not a waste to be with supportive caring people in your life. Just because it doesn&#039;t turn into something &quot;x&quot; doesn&#039;t change that. In fact, &quot;He&quot; was and probably is someone you needed at a time when you needed exactly what he gave you. 

What if &quot;he&quot; hadn&#039;t been there these last 3 years, could you, would you have hooked up with someone at a time you weren&#039;t as strong? Maybe (I would have probably). 

He was not wasting your time nor you his. You two must have enjoyed each other&#039;s company (that&#039;s how we fall deeper too isn&#039;t it? ). You gave each other what you both needed and now you are ready to move onto something deeper and if &quot;he&quot; isn&#039;t, then that&#039;s what you need to know too. 

I take it as a sign you are ready for true love, ready for and strong enough for, that risk... the risk of falling in love all the way, which can only happen if he falls too right? 

Its never a waste to be with people you love and care about, with people who are kind and supportive, those are rare wonderful gifts from the world. Love, whether you give it or receive it, is a gift. 

You&#039;re just sending out a message to the world, &#039;ok boys... I&#039;m ready for love,...&#039; and I suspect your love is on its way... you&#039;ve opened your heart now and He probably helped you with that so. It&#039;s another sign of your strength and growth you are moving along... at just the right speed for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laura, I have listened to you for many years, talked w/u when you were on the air many times, felt with you, cried with you, and we don&#8217;t even know each other, but like so many others, because of your openness, I feel I do. In that vein, my heart breaks for you  &#8230;.</p>
<p>I disagree with Taylor though, it&#8217;s not a waste to be with supportive caring people in your life. Just because it doesn&#8217;t turn into something &#8220;x&#8221; doesn&#8217;t change that. In fact, &#8220;He&#8221; was and probably is someone you needed at a time when you needed exactly what he gave you. </p>
<p>What if &#8220;he&#8221; hadn&#8217;t been there these last 3 years, could you, would you have hooked up with someone at a time you weren&#8217;t as strong? Maybe (I would have probably). </p>
<p>He was not wasting your time nor you his. You two must have enjoyed each other&#8217;s company (that&#8217;s how we fall deeper too isn&#8217;t it? ). You gave each other what you both needed and now you are ready to move onto something deeper and if &#8220;he&#8221; isn&#8217;t, then that&#8217;s what you need to know too. </p>
<p>I take it as a sign you are ready for true love, ready for and strong enough for, that risk&#8230; the risk of falling in love all the way, which can only happen if he falls too right? </p>
<p>Its never a waste to be with people you love and care about, with people who are kind and supportive, those are rare wonderful gifts from the world. Love, whether you give it or receive it, is a gift. </p>
<p>You&#8217;re just sending out a message to the world, &#8216;ok boys&#8230; I&#8217;m ready for love,&#8230;&#8217; and I suspect your love is on its way&#8230; you&#8217;ve opened your heart now and He probably helped you with that so. It&#8217;s another sign of your strength and growth you are moving along&#8230; at just the right speed for you.</p>
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		<title>By: carmy</title>
		<link>http://jeffandjer.com/blog/laura/2010/01/18/the-last-diary-about-him/comment-page-1/#comment-37</link>
		<dc:creator>carmy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 13:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Everyone else posted an i&#039;m sorry about the guy thing we all know you are so much stronger then that and you should take this as he did you a huge favor because now you are &quot;available&quot; to meet the man of you dreams. So thank &quot;him&quot; when you do.
I was really writing about the photos Charlie took. WOW!!! That little boy has an eye. It may not be nothing to you or me but he has an imagination and a creativeness that is actually really good for a ten year old boy. Keep up the good work Charlie, let your imagination run wild through the lens of a camera.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone else posted an i&#8217;m sorry about the guy thing we all know you are so much stronger then that and you should take this as he did you a huge favor because now you are &#8220;available&#8221; to meet the man of you dreams. So thank &#8220;him&#8221; when you do.<br />
I was really writing about the photos Charlie took. WOW!!! That little boy has an eye. It may not be nothing to you or me but he has an imagination and a creativeness that is actually really good for a ten year old boy. Keep up the good work Charlie, let your imagination run wild through the lens of a camera.</p>
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		<title>By: Taylor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Taylor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 05:12:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Three years is a long time to be &quot;hoping&quot;.  That sounds like denile.  It&#039;s really hard to be friends with a guy because either you or him is going to want more.  Two people know when they want to be together and it doesn&#039;t end with a friendly hug at the end of the date no matter if you&#039;re taking it slow or not.  &quot;Him&quot; strung you along to make himself feel good in the mean time wasting your time.  You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find that &quot;just right frog&quot; and if they aren&#039;t even kissing you to begin with you got to get to steppin&#039;!  You have all the tools to get what you want but when you&#039;re not getting it from somebody you must let them go.  Don&#039;t waste your forties.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Three years is a long time to be &#8220;hoping&#8221;.  That sounds like denile.  It&#8217;s really hard to be friends with a guy because either you or him is going to want more.  Two people know when they want to be together and it doesn&#8217;t end with a friendly hug at the end of the date no matter if you&#8217;re taking it slow or not.  &#8220;Him&#8221; strung you along to make himself feel good in the mean time wasting your time.  You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find that &#8220;just right frog&#8221; and if they aren&#8217;t even kissing you to begin with you got to get to steppin&#8217;!  You have all the tools to get what you want but when you&#8217;re not getting it from somebody you must let them go.  Don&#8217;t waste your forties.</p>
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		<title>By: Sue</title>
		<link>http://jeffandjer.com/blog/laura/2010/01/18/the-last-diary-about-him/comment-page-1/#comment-35</link>
		<dc:creator>Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 00:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laura, I feel for you.  Hang in there, it will get better.  You deserve someone that wants you as much as you want him.  He&#039;s out there, probably looking for you too.

Keep your chin up (zit and all) and remember that thousands of us out there are wishing you the very best.

Hugs,
Sue</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laura, I feel for you.  Hang in there, it will get better.  You deserve someone that wants you as much as you want him.  He&#8217;s out there, probably looking for you too.</p>
<p>Keep your chin up (zit and all) and remember that thousands of us out there are wishing you the very best.</p>
<p>Hugs,<br />
Sue</p>
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